How This Work Happens
Your current relationship replays the exact script of your last one. You've built the career you wanted but feel strangely empty inside. You accidentally dial the one person you swore you'd never speak to again. Your body develops mysterious symptoms, such as headaches that come from nowhere, a pain in your back that never leaves, or exhaustion that sleep won't cure. You extend your hand to an important client and somehow your own name becomes unintelligible syllables. You spill wine on your mother-in-law's carpet for the second time this year. You call your current partner by your ex's name. You forget to call a sibling on their birthday, even though you have it scheduled and set an alarm. In a dream, you speed down a busy city street, dodging traffic, until you need to stop and discover the brakes don't work.
These aren't just random events. Your unconscious insists on being heard.
How Sessions Work
You speak whatever comes to mind without censoring yourself. I listen for patterns, repetitions, contradictions, and the places where your words reveal more than you intended. A single slip might unlock everything.
Rather than managing symptoms or teaching coping strategies, this work explores the hidden logic that might organize your experience. Together, we can discover why certain situations trigger you, why you repeat patterns that no longer serve you, and what your symptoms might be trying to communicate.
We return again and again to certain phrases, forgotten moments, seemingly trivial details: a recurring number, a childhood smell, a phrase you can't stop saying. This continues until they lose their power over you and genuine change becomes possible.
You speak freely
Dreams, memories, current events, seemingly random thoughts are all welcome. What you dismiss as meaningless often contains the key to everything.
We attend to what might be hidden
The gaps in your speech, contradictions in your stories, words that appear again and again. What you don't say often matters as much as what you do.
Sessions follow natural rhythms
Unlike traditional 50-minute hours, sessions end when something essential has been articulated. This might be 15 minutes or 55. Your mind doesn't follow clock time.
Meaning emerges naturally
Rather than offering solutions, we explore together how your words might carry different meanings, allowing new understandings to surface.
What Happens in Sessions
You'll be invited to speak freely to follow your thoughts wherever they lead. This might feel unusual if you're used to structured conversations, but most people discover they know more than they realized.
I'll respond at specific moments with a question, by highlighting a word you've used, or by suggesting we end when something essential has emerged. These moments often open new paths for exploration.
There's no "right" way to do this work. Some people explore dreams, others daily life, others memories or fantasies. What matters is speaking freely and staying curious about what emerges.
The Process of Change
Initially, anxiety may increase as we approach what has been kept out of awareness. This often signals we're approaching material that matters. What seem like setbacks sometimes prove to be breakthroughs in disguise.
Over time, many people experience changes such as:
Dreams Clarify
Some find their dreams become more vivid and meaningful as patterns emerge
Connections Emerge
Unexpected links between life experiences may suddenly make sense
Symptoms Transform
What once tormented you may become less problematic or dissolve
Patterns Break
Many stop repeating cycles without forcing themselves to change
Relief Arrives
Long-carried weight often finds words and begins to lift away
Confidence Grows
Self-assuredness may emerge that no longer depends on others
The part of you that you're not aware of resists being known directly. It reveals itself through dreams, mistakes, symptoms, and slips of the tongue. Our work creates conditions where these communications can be heard and transformed.
The Relationship
This isn't a typical relationship where we share experiences as equals. I maintain a particular stance that can allow hidden aspects of your experience to emerge. You will develop strong feelings about me, both positive and negative. These reactions become crucial material for understanding your patterns with others.
All sessions are conducted online via secure video or phone connection. This format has proven remarkably effective, as the deeper parts of your mind speak just as clearly through digital connection.
Your Investment
This depth of work requires genuine commitment: temporal, financial, and emotional. Your investment reflects and enables the profound shifts possible through engaging with what lies beneath conscious awareness.
Sessions are typically covered by insurance for those with in-network benefits. For others, self-pay options and out-of-network superbills are available.
Specific fees and insurance details are discussed during our preliminary interviews, as the investment in this work is an important part of the process itself.
Duration and Commitment
The work continues until you've experienced sufficient change, until the repetitive cycles that brought you here have transformed into new possibilities for living.
This approach serves those ready to discover something unexpected about themselves. The people who benefit most have reached a point where staying the same feels more dangerous than changing.
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